My mother wore the same charcoal-gray coat for thirty winters. As a child, I was embarrassed by it. The elbows were worn thin, the cuffs frayed, and the buttons didn’t match. When I was a teenager, I’d ask her to drop me off a block from school so no one would see it. She would just smile and say, “It keeps the cold out, baby. That’s all that matters.” Years later, after becoming an architect, I bought her a beautiful cashmere coat. She thanked me, hung it in the closet—and wore the old one the next morning. We argued about...
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