I came home one evening to a surprising and uncomfortable scene: our 23-year-old babysitter had just gotten out of the shower, and my husband — who was supposed to be working the night shift — was home and defending her. I was confused and immediately suspicious. The babysitter explained that our toddler had spilled milk on her, and since the kids were napping, she quickly showered. Still, I felt it was inappropriate for her to shower in our home without asking me — and even more unsettling that my husband didn’t find it odd. They both dismissed my concerns, and...
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