First impressions are everything. People will use many different things to judge your personality before they even get to know you. Although it’s not nice to judge a book by its cover, experts say there is a psychology behind why we do it. “The main reason we judge others (and even ourselves!) is because our brain is wired to keep us safe,” Kellie Zeigler, certified applied positive psychology practitioner, tells Bustle. “It wants stability and certainty, so it makes quick judgments to help us do that.” For example, when your brain judges someone and labels them “rude,” you’ll know to...
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